There’s a reason Cape May has been welcoming visitors for over 150 years. As America’s oldest seaside resort—yes, even older than Newport—this Victorian gem at the southern tip of New Jersey has a timeless appeal that keeps travelers returning year after year.
We fell in love with Cape May the same way many visitors do: slowly, then all at once. The European-like town center, the Victorian architecture wrapped in gingerbread trim, and the rare ability to park your car and spend the rest of your stay on foot. It reminded us of the coastal towns we knew growing up in Germany—places designed for strolling, lingering, and savoring.
Whether you’re planning a romantic weekend escape, a family vacation, or a solo retreat by the Atlantic, this guide covers everything you need to know to make the most of your Cape May visit.
What Makes Cape May Special
Cape May isn’t just another beach town. It’s a designated National Historic Landmark City—one of only five in the United States—thanks to its remarkable collection of Victorian architecture. Walking through the streets feels like stepping back in time, yet with modern comforts around every corner.
What sets Cape May apart:
- Walkability – Park once and explore everything on foot
- Year-round appeal – Beautiful in every season, not just summer
- World-class birding – One of North America’s premier migration spots
- Distinct character – No chain restaurants on the main drag
- Beach access – Clean, well-maintained beaches just steps from downtown
- Culinary scene – Farm-to-table dining meets fresh seafood
Things to Do in Cape May
Hit the Beach
Cape May’s beaches are the main attraction for good reason. Clean, wide, and family-friendly, they’re the quintessential Jersey Shore experience—without the boardwalk chaos.
The Beaches:
- Cove Beach – Protected swimming area, perfect for families with young children. Calmer waters and lifeguards on duty in season.
- Poverty Beach – A locals’ favorite with a more relaxed vibe. Great for those seeking quieter sand.
- Sunset Beach – Famous for its stunning sunsets and “Cape May Diamonds” (quartz pebbles polished by the ocean). Also home to the concrete ship SS Atlantus, partially visible offshore.
Beach Tip: Everyone 12 and older needs a beach tag from Memorial Day through Labor Day. When you stay with us at Cape del Mar, we provide complimentary beach tags—two per unit at most properties, four at Cape Belvedere and Cape Wave.
Explore the Victorian District
Grab a coffee and wander. Cape May’s Victorian district is an architectural treasure trove of colorful painted ladies, wrap-around porches, and intricate woodwork. Many homes date to the 1870s-1890s, rebuilt after a fire destroyed much of the town in 1878.
Must-See Victorian Landmarks:
- The Emlen Physick Estate – Cape May’s only Victorian house museum, offering tours of the 18-room mansion
- Congress Hall – One of America’s oldest seaside resorts, open since 1816
- Walking Tours – The Mid-Atlantic Center for the Arts (MAC) offers trolley tours and guided walks
Stroll Washington Street Mall
This is the heart of Cape May—a three-block pedestrian mall lined with boutiques, restaurants, and galleries. No cars, no chains, just the charm of independent shops and sidewalk cafés.
What You’ll Find:
- Local boutiques and beach shops
- Art galleries featuring local artists
- Ice cream shops (multiple, all excellent)
- Outdoor dining patios
- Live music in summer evenings
The mall is just steps from most Cape del Mar properties—one of the reasons we chose these locations. We believe the best vacations are the ones where you never need your car keys.
Visit Cape May Lighthouse
Climb the 199 steps for panoramic views of the Atlantic Ocean, Delaware Bay, and Cape May Point. Built in 1859, it’s one of the oldest operating lighthouses in the country.
Details:
- Open daily (hours vary by season)
- Moderate climb, not recommended for those with mobility issues
- Combine with a trip to Cape May Point State Park
Go Birding
Cape May is consistently ranked as one of the top birding destinations in North America. The cape’s position at the tip of a peninsula makes it a natural funnel for migratory birds—especially in fall when hawks, songbirds, and monarch butterflies pass through by the thousands.
For Bird Enthusiasts:
- Cape May Bird Observatory (Northwood Center) – The hub for birding, with guided walks, workshops, and daily sighting updates
- Cape May Point State Park – Trails and viewing platforms
- The Meadows – Excellent for shorebirds and wading birds
Even if you’re not a serious birder, the fall migration is a spectacle worth experiencing.
Whale and Dolphin Watching
The Cape May Whale Watcher offers cruises to see humpback whales, dolphins, and other marine life. Even if you don’t spot whales, the boat trip offers beautiful views of the cape from the water. Guests of Cape del Mar get an exclusive discount.
- Season: April through December
- Duration: 2-3 hours
- Tip: Morning cruises tend to have calmer seas
Wine Tasting on the Cape May Wine Trail
Cape May has a thriving wine scene with several vineyards open for tastings. The coastal climate produces excellent wines, and most wineries offer beautiful settings for an afternoon sip.
Popular Wineries:
- Cape May Winery & Vineyard
- Willow Creek Winery
- Hawk Haven Vineyard
- Natali Vineyards
Most are a short drive from downtown—consider a designated driver or tour service.
Where to Eat in Cape May
Cape May punches well above its weight in the culinary department. Fresh seafood, farm-to-table cuisine, and BYOB restaurants (bring your own bottle!) make dining here a highlight.
Fine Dining
The Washington Inn – A Cape May institution set in a historic Victorian home. Known for exceptional wine list (one of the best in New Jersey) and classic American cuisine with modern touches. Reservations essential in season.
The Ebbitt Room at The Virginia Hotel – Elegant farm-to-table dining in a beautifully restored Victorian hotel. Seasonal menus showcase local ingredients.
Peter Shields Inn – Oceanfront fine dining with stunning views. Perfect for special occasions.
Casual & Family-Friendly
The Lobster House – A Cape May classic since 1954. Fresh seafood in a bustling atmosphere—arrive early or expect a wait. Their fish market is excellent if you’re cooking in.
Lucky Bones Backwater Grille – Laid-back vibes, great burgers and seafood, family-friendly patio. One of the few places in Cape May that takes reservations for larger groups.
George’s Place – Best breakfast in town. Greek-influenced menu, homemade everything. Prepare to wait on weekends—it’s worth it.
Quick Bites & Coffee
Cape May Peanut Butter Co. – Artisanal peanut butters and the most creative sandwiches you’ve ever seen. Instagram-worthy and delicious.
The Red Store – Hidden gem in Cape May Point. Gourmet sandwiches, coffee, and provisions in a charming general store setting.
Tisha’s Fine Dining (Yes, it’s a takeout counter) – Don’t let the name confuse you—this is casual takeout with generous portions. Great for a beach picnic.
Ice Cream (Essential Research)
- The Fudge Kitchen – Classic fudge and saltwater taffy
- Kohr Bros – Soft-serve frozen custard, a Shore tradition
- Uncle Charley’s – Ice cream sandwiches made to order
BYOB Culture
Many Cape May restaurants are BYOB with no corkage fee—a wonderful tradition that saves money and lets you pair your meal with exactly what you want. Hit a local wine shop (Collier’s Liquor or Seaside Cheese) before dinner.
When to Visit Cape May
Summer (June–August)
- Pros: Warmest weather, all attractions open, beach season
- Cons: Highest rates, biggest crowds, beach tags required
- Book: 3-6 months in advance for peak weeks
Fall (September–November)
- Pros: Spectacular birding, fall foliage, fewer crowds, mild weather
- Cons: Ocean is too cold for swimming by October
- Best For: Birders, couples, those who prefer quiet
Spring (April–May)
- Pros: Blooming gardens, lower rates, pleasant walking weather
- Cons: Ocean too cold for swimming, some attractions limited hours
- Best For: Victorian architecture buffs, early birders
Winter (December–March)
- Pros: Lowest rates, Victorian Christmas events, cozy atmosphere
- Cons: Many restaurants closed, limited activities
- Best For: Romantic getaways, off-season explorers
Where to Stay in Cape May
Cape May accommodations range from historic B&Bs to modern vacation rentals. Here’s how to choose:
Bed & Breakfasts
Cape May is famous for its Victorian B&Bs. Great for couples seeking romance and history. Less ideal for families or those wanting privacy and flexibility.
Hotels
Congress Hall and The Virginia Hotel offer upscale hotel experiences with historic character. Higher price point, full service.
Vacation Rentals
The best option for families, longer stays, or travelers who want space and a kitchen. This is our specialty at Cape del Mar.
Why Book a Vacation Rental?
- Space – Full kitchens, living areas, often multiple bedrooms
- Value – Cook some meals in, save on dining out
- Flexibility – Come and go as you please, no set breakfast times
- Amenities – Washer/dryer, parking, beach chairs, bikes at some properties
Our Cape May Properties
At Cape del Mar, we offer a collection of thoughtfully renovated vacation rentals, each designed for comfort and convenience.
Cape Whale – Pet-friendly beachfront condo with elevator access. Partial ocean views from shared porch. Perfect for couples or small families traveling with a furry friend.
Cape Surf – Modern pet-friendly condo with elevator access. Walkable to everything. Great for those who want contemporary comforts in a classic setting.
Cape Oar – Charming rental with in-unit washer/dryer at the historic Cranberry Court. Ideal for families who value convenience and privacy.
Cape Belvedere – Our only property with direct ocean views from the apartment. Four beach chairs and tags included. Perfect for larger groups or those who prioritize the view.
Cape Wave – Renovated Loft with Nespresso machine and in-unit washer/dryer. Four beach tags included. Walk to beach, dining, and shops within minutes.
What Sets Us Apart:
Every Cape del Mar property is eco-friendly—not as a buzzword, but as a commitment. We clean with non-toxic products, provide organic toiletries, and outfit each unit with water filtration, air purification, and eco-certified bedding. Small choices that make a difference for you and the planet.
Cape May Travel Tips
Getting There
- From Philadelphia: ~90 minutes via Atlantic City Expressway and Garden State Parkway
- From NYC: ~3 hours via Garden State Parkway
- From Washington DC/Baltimore: ~3.5-4 hours via Cape May-Lewes Ferry is a scenic option
Parking
- Each Cape del Mar rental includes one dedicated parking spot
- Additional vehicles use street parking (free in many areas, metered downtown)
- In summer, arrive early to secure parking near the beach
Beach Tags
- Required Memorial Day–Labor Day for ages 12+
- Purchased daily or seasonally at beach entrances
- Staying with us? We provide complimentary tags
Reservations
- Book popular restaurants several days (or weeks) in advance during summer
- Many places are walk-in friendly in off-season
- Remember: many restaurants are BYOB
Packing Essentials
- Beach towels (we provide linens, but bring your own for the beach)
- Sunscreen and hats
- Comfortable walking shoes
- Light layers (evenings can be cool)
- Binoculars if you’re interested in birding
Plan Your Cape May Vacation
Cape May rewards those who slow down. This isn’t a destination for checking boxes—it’s a place for savoring moments. Morning coffee on a porch. Afternoon naps with ocean breezes. Sunset walks to find Cape May diamonds. Long dinners with no agenda after.
We’d love to host you at Cape del Mar. Browse our Cape May vacation rentals and find the perfect home base for your beach escape. Book directly with us for the best rates and a personal touch—we’re always happy to share our local favorites and help you plan an unforgettable stay.
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Have questions about planning your Cape May trip? Contact us at vacation@capedelmar.com or call (877) 755-0820. We’re always happy to help.
